Hey, I want to talk to you about state. I want to talk to you about the importance of state, and that doesn’t mean moving to New Zealand or Tasmania, I’m talking about the state of consciousness that you are. I actually believe that mindset, consciousness, state is what it’s all about. Consciousness is present, state is focus, what focus you are? If you’re focusing on what you don’t want, that’s what you’re going to get. If you focus on what you do want, that’s what you’re going to get.
Now, at OneLife what we work on is how to build wealth, how to build your financial fortress, how to build your time management, balance and harmony in your life, how to build the best possible portfolio of profit, property, or whether it be commercial, whether it’s flicking transactions as in residential, and how to get to really understand that you are responsible for your wealth and that you could get a great, outcome here, and, and by being in state, by being focused on what you want, not what you don’t want.
And I’m going to remind you about the six human needs. That’s, you know…
- Love and Connection,
Let’s just go through them carefully, and I want you to really check on your state, on your focus, how certain are you? How certain are you in your relationship? How certain are you in your job? How certain are you with your money? How certain are you with respect to your health and wellbeing? And that certainty will actually be a huge issue for the state that you live in, the consciousness that you are, the focus that you are.
And, the complete paradox of that is, you know, the variety, the fun that you’re having. How much laughter? How much good times are you having too? How is there a balance here between very serious to having some fun? and we get people who are very fun loving, and adventurous, and just traveling, I mean, they spend all their money and have nothing, and then we get other people so focused on their certainty and have no fun, so there’s like a balance here, just check it out.
And then, how significant is your life in the sense of, and the other word for that is, I call it, respect, respect for yourself, respect for others, and it is a mirror, so as you respect yourself, so others are respected, as you disrespect yourself, you’ll probably disrespect others.
This is an important part of your achievement, and it’s part of your personality, part of you, who you are as a person, and the paradox of that is love and connection, love and connection of course is your heart. It’s your fulfillment, your connection with yourself, with your partner, your family, everything, so that’s those balancing areas.
Now, if you look at those six human needs of certainty, significance, these are masculine. If you look at variety, love and connection, these are mainly feminine, and for women, we work with them in the sense of, to try and get more a bit of masculine over here. To keep their feminine, but get more significance, get more of that respect area and get more certainty.
For men, we often work with that certainty, moving them a bit over to variety, but particularly over to love and connection, because it’s often an emasculate trait, not necessarily, this, their first cab off the rank as it were. In fact, men would often put their business or their money ahead of their family, where women as a general statement, the feminine will put their family ahead of money. And, and yet, we are talking about choice, we want all things.
Then the bottom line to this is growth and contribution. Now, these are the two essential absolute things if you’ve got to have. If you look at a relationship that you’ve fallen apart with, or a job or anything, you’ll find that one of these six human needs, it wasn’t, growing, it wasn’t, being contributed to. You didn’t have certainty, you didn’t have variety, it was too boring. You weren’t in significance, you were being disrespected, there was no love and connection.
You’ll find one of those missing, and the last person who left you left because of that, and the last person you left was because of that, the last person who will leave will be because of that, your friendships will be determined, your job, everything about fulfillment will be determined by those six human needs.
So, in the end of the day, the bottom line to all state management in consciousness is to be happy and to be fulfilled.
Success Without Fulfillment is Ultimate Failure.
All the money in the world will not deal with this. So, I welcome you to look at this area, because I believe we’re all on a journey,
I believe we have vehicles to get us there, property, business, shares, trusts, structure, tax, connection, coaching, whatever, there’s many many ways of dealing with your basic area, getting that money thing fixed.
However, if you don’t have a coach or someone to work with or someone to hold you to account, then things can go a bit haywire.
So anyway, we’ve got some free gifts, if you want to get online, check it out, see if there’s something we can do to help you, we’re here for that, that’s what we do.
Signing off. See you next time. Thank you.
Written by Roy McDonald
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